It is such a big deal on using 'majlis kesyukuran' here cos 'Walimatul Urus' meant one has to 'give money' as a gift to the parents of the bride or bridegroom whilst 'Majlis Kesyukuran' one just have to 'lenggang2 tangan kosong' (let me be specific.especially for men) to the event and eat for free. oh what a confusion! Daughter was adamant not to include the 'majlis kesyukuran' on the card and so be it because to her it meant the same.
From my own experience during my daughter's wedding someone suggested 'majlis kesyukuran' should be printed on the wedding card beside the 'walimatul urus'. But isn't the word 'walimatul urus' meant 'kesyukuran' too?.all thanks to the Almighty for a smooth event. Years ago (20 years ago?) the word 'majlis kesyukuran' was not used to invite people to a wedding event. It is more 'islamic' to put the word 'majlis kesyukuran' rather than 'walimatul urus' here. Sekadar Contoh Kad Undangan Perkahwinan Bertemakan Majlis Kesyukuranįine and good the intention of 'Walimatul Urus' but when receiving wedding cards with the word "Majlis Kesyukuran' it can made a big difference for folks in an east coast state. Ia bertujuan untuk menghebahkan kepada orang ramai mengenai perkahwinan tersebut, mengelakkan sangkaan buruk orang ramai sekiranya terjadi sesuatu perkata dan saudara mara dapat menyaksikan sendiri pernikahan mereka dan mendoakan kebahagiaan rumahtangga mereka.(fakta dari Wikipedia Bahasa Melayu) Walimatulurus atau kenduri kahwin sunat(seperti majlis santapan makanan)diadakan dan menerima jemputannya adalah wajib (terdapat ulama mengatakan sunat).
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